At the start of 2021, a moment to pause and reflect on 2020. I started with the idea of writing and commenting on the subjects and things that interested me in 2020. My best laid plans were unfortunately disrupted. I suppose that many people were in the same position. How do you reflect on 2020? The pandemic is not over, so is it tempting fate to reflect on what was good and what was bad.
There are things to be grateful for;
- My nearest and dearest are still healthy. I have thus far avoided the virus. Most of my friends seem to be in a similar position.
- I still have my job. I still enjoy what I do but in different circumstances. It seems my employer has been far more generous and understanding in comparison to many others. I have good colleagues and students.
- I avoided commuting which has been a revelation. I did not realise how much commuting can drag you down.
- I was lucky enough to live in a great place and community.
- I became a better cook.
- Material things do not matter as much.
- Decent mental health and happiness.
- New and old heroes.
- Realising that I am bad at taking up new hobbies.
- A decent amount of good weather last spring and summer.
- Smiling people exercising.
There are things to be sad about;
- The appalling loss of life.
- The inability to physically be with your nearest and dearest.
- The restrictions and change in lifestyle.
- Political failure to deal with the pandemic.
- Corruption in dealing with the pandemic.
- The selfishness of a minority of people.
- Exceptionalism and selfishness.
- Missing watching live sports and meeting friends.
- Conspiracy theories and fake news about everything.
- Feeling like groundhog day
- Being alone.
Both these lists could go on. For those of us that are adaptable and resilient, we carry on. However, we need to take care of those that need our help and care. It is the small things that make a difference.
Let us look forward to the new year with hope and optimism.